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Shewolf
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Posted on Monday, April 04, 2005 - 05:48 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

This question is more for Dom's/Dommes than bottoms and subs, although any insight is appreciated. What is it about the cane that makes it seem to be the "be all and end all" of spanking implements? Not a video or book is promoted without the cane being used towards the end. No brat can be fully tamed or truly repentant without it being used. It seems that no disciplinarian is truly happy until they have mastered it. I just dont get it.

Is it the thrill of knowing that it is possibly the most painful of all implements? Is it the terror in your subs eyes when you pick it up? Is there some satisfaction in seeing the ridges and welts that are left behind afterwards? What makes this toy so darn important?

I havent had much experience with the cane...but enough to know I will never like it. It still inspires more fear than anything else in me. Maybe being an american and it not being a part of our history, I never will get used to it. And this leaves me feeling like a spanko misfit.

Never mind that 90% of all the ladies I know dont enjoy it either. I realize we're all different, we all have different levels and likes and dislikes from each other. But I'm still left feeling kind of like a spanko pariah...just because I prefer plain old spanking most of the time.

So fill me in if you can Tops, what makes the cane so darn special?
Somedays it's just not worth it to gnaw through the restraints...
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Naughtynature
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Posted on Monday, April 04, 2005 - 07:53 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

If your a spanko misfit then so am I. I also prefer plain ole spankings and do feel I will probably never try the cane. Yes I do fear it which I think it is the sound that sets the fear. I have watched people receive canings and it diffently scares me to even watch, they enjoyed it but I sure didn't. I am American too so you might have hit a point there. We only had paddles in school in my era. :-)
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Rubyredd
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Posted on Monday, April 04, 2005 - 08:35 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I LOVE the cane...it's my favorite implement. The sensation is so much nicer than wooden implements. That's not to say that I don't just like a plain handspanking...I do. But, I need variety, too.

I think that the cane has gotten a really bad rap...people fear it for no reason. To each their own favorite, I guess.
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Fannyannie
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I don't want to make any judgments because I've never seen or felt one - only seen pictures. I've gone back and forth with someone I've "met" through Classics, who tells me I'd never go back once I've tried it. And I asked Peter Wabbit to send me info for beginners because I trust him not to steer me wrong.

I have a dilemma though: If I were to accept the cane I would prefer someone who had experience and didn't want to cut me to ribbons. But I only want to be spanked/paddled/caned by my husband in real life, who has no experience himself. Even if he were to practice and think he got it right; I'm not sure I want to be a test case. So it's all iffy anyways.

I'd be willing to try, though. I don't want to knock it until I"ve tried it. Shewolf, obviously you have experienced it and don't like it.

Hopefully the Tops, who do use the cane can come out and explain why they like it.
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Mulberrybrat
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Posted on Monday, April 04, 2005 - 10:02 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Wolfie, did ya have to ask? If Mark replies to this, you DO KNOW I will seek retribution, right?
Just consider me a "work in progress"
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Kilahara
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As usual my thinking is out of synch with so many others! The reason I do not use the cane is simply the result of its use in the school setting. As a student I found it painful and unpleasant. As a schoolmaster, I certainly found it to be very, very effective, and I loathed the result when I used the senior cane on a tough teenager who 'broke' with a single cut, and that over normal clothing. The senior cane approved for use in London schools, at least in a Church of England grammar school, were thick and not terribly flexible, and could draw blood through clothing. I understand that was not the case with the slimmer and lighter examples.

Of course the canes that I see portrayed for 'sporting' use are are the very thin and highly flexible ones, of the kind we would have used on first to fourth formers in the good old days.

There are most certainly those who look upon the cane very differently, and consider it a highly erotic and even sensual implement. Chacaun a sa gout.

Ultimately, I do not get pleasure from causing anyone severe pain, despite there being bottoms who accept that, perhaps being truer pain junkies with a desire or need for the endorphins produced by the body as a result. Somehow I differentiate between 'sting' and 'hurt,' both result in pain, but not necessarily pleasure.

Ross


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Rubyredd
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Posted on Monday, April 04, 2005 - 10:22 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

My first experience with the cane was also my partner's first experience with the cane. He did a beautiful job...he has never cut me...nor has he even left marks like you see in those pictures. Even after 200 cane strokes, I was no more welted or marked than I have been with a strap. He's just THAT good!! :-)

Any of the implements can cause bruising or stiffness or severe pain. Each can be used for erotic purposes.

The cane is such a different sensation...if you're curious about it, try it...even if it's just one or two strokes. My only advice is to get a real rattan cane...stay away from a stiff bamboo cane to start and don't use a dowel rod (the cheap man's cane).

My first time, I was completely terrified and nearly made myself sick from the fear of it. Yes, the first time hurt--but, I think the pain was more in my head than anywhere else. Afterwards, I explored the sensation more and more and fell in love with it.

I would prefer the cane to a paddle almost any day of the week. ANY day.
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Darwins
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Why do I get the feeling that this question was aimed at getting a response from me? You naughty girl! (grin)

I gave Wolfie her first experience with the cane, and I must say how impressed I was with her that, despite her obvious fear, she at least tried it.

So why do I like it, and why do I encourage people to try it?

From my perspective, and I think this may not be a universally accepted opinion, it is probably the most versatile of all the toys, and the one (apart from something specialised like a bull whip) that requires the most skill to use it correctly. Over the years I have swung the cane through literally thousands of stokes, both in practice on cushions (which I still do periodically) and in real life on willing bottoms. Notice I say willing bottoms. The result of this practice is that the cane will land exactly where it is supposed to, with the correct amount of force, to cause just the right amount of pleasure to its recipient. The same cannot be said for many other toys that are in vogue.

Who ever said it has a bad rap is quite correct, although I would agree with Ross about how it can be used. In my school days it was used on me and drew blood several times Ė mostly I would say by those inexperienced in controlled force.

This is an instrument that can be used from oh so delicate and erotic, to a frighteningly full-bore pain giver. It can be used to massage, to temp and tease, to lightly sting, and yes to cause real pain. It is sad that it is universally regarded as a PUNISHMENT tool which in most cases of play it most certainly is not. This universal regard, and the frightening pictures of badly striped bottoms with heavy welts, that are so often portrayed, is so far from the truth of everyday usage as to be laughable.

And, before my young lady can come back to me with the comment that there were marks left from her adventure, I would say yes it was true, at the time. However two hours later they had disappeared and the next day her delightful bottom showed no evidence at all of her encounter! (smile)

I like Rubyís post, to me that says it all about how a cane can be used in the hands of a caring person, and very few people would give out that number of stokes, my regards to your chap!

Personally, when I see the bruised, purple, welted bottoms of ladies in pictures who have been dealt with by your American school paddle I cringe, I think it is a ferocious and quite brutal toy and not one I would care to use, but others here like it and would loudly disagree with me.

The cane, and its association with punishment, is what I believe causes the fear. It is in the mind, not in its application, since like any toy, it is how it is used and not what it is.


The Gentle Barbarian "You have been assimilated so resistance is futile"
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Shewolf
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Posted on Tuesday, April 05, 2005 - 07:56 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

well......ok ........maybe I did enjoy parts of it
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Michelle
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Darwins, I agree with a lot of what you have said. It is a mind set of fear that causes me not to want to try the cane. All though I know if I did I would love it. Back before I met my husband I had never told any one about my interest in TTWD and I often experimented on my self to see what it was like. The things I liked the most were thin objects similar to a cane. It was unlike any other sensation I have ever experianced. But put those objects in my vanilla husband's hand. OUCH!!! He really enjoys spanking me now and has become quite a wonderfull top, but he is not skillfull when it comes to certain toys.

I once tried a coat hanger on my self, and like you said the red lines were gone in about an hour but put in his hands I got bruises So I and worried about putting a cane in his hand.

I think a lot of horrible pictures on line have a lot to do with the fear people have. People acting like they are aiming carfully only to see them swing the cane like a base ball bat and cut their partner in to pieces Same as the paddle pictures that you talked about.

I love the paddles however, my husband is good at using it. No bad brusing like the pictures. I know I would love the cane but I am not ready to arm him with one yet

Sorry Shewolf, I know your question was directed at Spankers.
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Shewolf
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Michelle, I wanted everyone's input, so no need to be sorry. And I dont blame you for not wanting a cane in your hubby's hand...it takes lots of practice to be good at it. I think Ruby was lucky indeed that someone so inexperienced didnt hurt her.

And ok, so maybe the welts disappeared after a little while...that's not the point.

I had been suitably warmed up (and put in a lethargic state from other pastimes *grin*) before he used the cane on me. I did enjoy the more gentler tapping and rubbing with the cane...but I believe nerves still made the "zingers" he added on seem worse than they were.

Will I try it again? Only time will tell.
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Shewolf
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Posted on Tuesday, April 05, 2005 - 09:42 am:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Oh and Mul?
Certain stroppy Doms are in more need of a spanking than most brats I know!
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Mistress_grace
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Posted on Tuesday, April 05, 2005 - 12:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post View Post/Check IP    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

The cane is My all-time favorite impliemnt. Why? It's elegant. It takes a lot of skill (in My not so humble opinion) to use and use it correctly in a scene. To really make a beautiful scene You need to be able to focus on more than just the actual blows. Since the pain is more intense and takes a bit more time between blows to adjust You have to focus on the words You use, the tone You take, the way You walk behind the submissive.

With any other impliment You can just go to town and bring the sub right back to focus. But with the cane You have to be oh so more percise.

I even look elegant when using it. When I played publically with terry and used the cane My Dom friend commented on how graceful (pun intended) the scene was.

I too have never left long-term marks or cut someone with My cane -- but I did have him "begging" for Me to stop.

Deliciousssssssssssss.
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Beachley
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I think at some point I could be convinced to try the cane like Wolfie did, but the problem I would run into is me. Not the person using the cane but me.

I have a terrible time holding still for any implement, even the hand. If a paddle misses the mark here or there, it is not too big a deal and after all it is my own fault for wriggling too much. What would happen when the cane lands where it shouldn't. Again it would be my fault and no one elses, but I know me and I won't hold still.

Steve you know me - I could hardly hold still last May in DC, you had to clamp me down then and even had to tell me once to get my head back down.

So you see my point - a cane on me could land most anywhere.
The spice of life is having things MY OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Mulberrybrat
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Wolfie, I saw that!
Just consider me a "work in progress"
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Shewolf
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Ann, I am not an expert so perhaps what I'm about to say is wrong. But the cane strikes incredibly fast. He would be gently tapping away and I would be relaxing more and more and then...ZAP! I didnt watch him so I wouldnt be able to tense up easily, but I doubt I could have moved out of the way either. Forget what you've seen and heard about them pulling the cane back to shoulder height, its not neccesary. Just a few inches from your butt is all they need.

Saw what Mul?
Certain stroppy Doms are in more need of a spanking than most brats I know!
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Beachley
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See I had not thought of it like that. The cane striking so fast (like a snake) that the stripe is done before you have a chance to move. That might be a possibility. But there would have to be ample time inbetween the swats to settle down before the next strike.

Hmmm just thinking out loud here.


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Penny
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Beachley said:
If a paddle misses the mark here or there, it is not too big a deal and after all it is my own fault for wriggling too much.

I think a paddle could bruise your tailbone just as much as any other implement.
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Shewolf
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Curiosity spanked the Beachley!
Certain stroppy Doms are more in need of a spanking than most brats I know!
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The cane requires skill to be used well

I always say that one should first develop accuracy, then build up the force gently
thereafter. I always advise someone learning to use it to practice on a cushion

It is an implement which is best used with a short travel and a flick of the wrist.

Wildly flailing Tops arms often lead to inaccuracy and to damage.

I know some people have a horrendous fear of them, even though they have never used
them or felt their impact of effect.

A Cane need never be used with a great deal of force, and certainly not by someone
inexperienced in its use. A great deal of practice hitting a cushion or similar is a
pre-requisite to using it on a bottom. Until the user can handle it with accuracy slide the hand along it to effectively shorten it and thus give greater control

A cane that travels a foot will get your attention, two feet and you will certainly
know about it if the user knows the secret of its use. Which is in the flick of the
wrist.

When someone draws a cane back above their head it is not only unnecessary but also
likely to be very inaccurate. Images of such use and pictures of welted bottoms
cause much of the fear of the cane.

Incidentally cane lines on a well reddened and warmed up bottom may be gone in 24 or less

Whilst a Cane can be used to hurt, it can also be used to cause no more than a gentle
sting.
A Cane can be used erotically, it can be enjoyable and it can even send you to sub
space.

I have some friends who LOVE to receive it, and others who think of it only as an
instrument of punishment. This is because of their psychological thoughts of it.
Particularly their frame of mind and the circumstances in which they first felt one

There are many tricks with a cane, one is just tapping very light and fast, the
sting builds without getting too much

A GG with a cane can be as enjoyable as anything else

BTW I never try for terror in my subs eyes, I enjoy giving her what she finds enjoyable, and that happens to include the cane
I walk quietly but carry a big stick

Master Eagle clasps crags with wicked hands
Close to the sun in lonely lands
Spots Brats Bottoms from his rocky walls
Then like a thunderbolt his hand falls


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Any good mail order houses for canes? They don't sell them at Walmart here.
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A GG with a cane???

No, thanks, canes scare the s--- out of me!
One does what one must do in order to survive in this world.....
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Shewolf
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Ummmm, yes they do F.A. look in the garden section under bamboo stakes.
Certain stroppy Doms are more in need of a spanking than most brats I know!
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Just be sure to soak them regularly if you use bamboo rather than rattan, to avoid splintering. Overnight once a week or so works well, or used to be common in London schools.
Navigo, ergo sum.

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Floggerfalls
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Shewolf, in your original question about canes, It's my experience that most people hate the cane because of it's 2nd wave of pain that it emits with each stroke. The thinner the cane the more it will sting, a 6mm cane will sting far worse than a 9mm cane would. A looped cane will have a little more thud to it because of the added weight but it too will emit sting right to the bone. What gives canes such a sting is the fact that they're so light in weight and they can be administered in a heavy fashion quite easily. I hate the cane too, you're not alone in that one.

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Darwins
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A word on buying canes from garden centres Ė donít. Take the time and invest the money in a good rattan or koobo cane or even a nice smoked dragon, ordinary bamboo (the sort sold for garden stakes) is too brittle and will crack and splinter. They need a considerable amount of sanding down to remove the surface knots and wealís to make them smooth and usable and this has a tendency to weaken them.

Ann, it really is about conditioning. The easiest way to stop someone moving or wriggling is simply to stop! If your moving or wriggling is likely to cause anything to land in the wrong place, then we stop the spanking, and we keep on stopping the spanking until you stop the wriggling, and if you wonít stop then we donít spank.

If your using a toy, especially a wooden paddle, you could get hurt. Now I agree that Mr B probably isnít swinging the paddle hard enough to cause you permanent damage, but that isnít the point. The physiological effect that it can have on the spanker knowing he has hurt his partner by a wayward stroke can significantly inhibit his attitude to spanking.

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I agree entirely with Steve Darwins about using bamboo canes. I Don't use them. If they split they pinch the skin and cut it

Floggerfalls makes valid points re thickness and effect.
Thats why I have canes ranging from 6 to 12 mm thick (1/4 to 1/2 inch) and different types from kaboo to smoked dragon. The thinner cane has more sting and as they get thicker there is more thud to accompany the sting
Every cane has a different feel to it
I walk quietly but carry a big stick

Master Eagle clasps crags with wicked hands
Close to the sun in lonely lands
Spots Brats Bottoms from his rocky walls
Then like a thunderbolt his hand falls


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Which is your favourite?
Topped and Tupped
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Prissy
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the one that does not exist...


oh sorry, you was talking to Peter.


Love to my tops who believe in me. Who are teaching me both, to not look at the big mountain, but to enjoy the small steps on the way up.
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On the matter of bamboo canes as used in schools during my days as a teacher. It must be realised, of course, that contrary to popular belief, they were not used on the bare in either Oxford or London. The splitting and splintering issue was more a matter of preserving the instrument and extending its useful life. The senior bamboo cane I still possess is now several decades old, and shows no signs of splitting. Of course it has not had a real 'work-out' since it left St. Mark's School and now has mainly sentimental value.
Navigo, ergo sum.

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Ross of Kilahara...
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Shewolf
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Ok, ok I wasnt serious about buying a cane from Wal-mart...I was simply teasing FannieAnnie. I dont believe anyone should ever buy substandard equipment, be it a paddle, strap or cane.

Sorry guys. :-(


Flogger, thank you for that information. Maybe someday I will get up the nerve to try the different thicknesses, just to feel the difference in them. Then again...probably NOT!
Certain stroppy Doms are more in need of a spanking than most brats I know!
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quote:

Which is your favourite?




They are ALL my favorite.

They all have an equally equisite feel to them.

The thinner ones are stingy and the thicker ones are more thuddier......but ALL(used in play and GG's) are fantastic...they all leave a great after sting/tingling too.

Now Peter....which is your fav????
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www.schoolcanes.com

The link here is where I get all my canes, I've not found better in regards to both applying and feeling the sting of a cane. They can make a cane as thick or as thin as you desire. Check out the looped canes...they're fun to use, but they sting like a *%"#*$.
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I wonder if the cane in stories, portrayed as the worst of possible punishments, comes from the fact that they are used so horribly in real life in Malaysia.
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Mdyne, you may be correct as the Singapore Cane used for judicial punishment is longer than normal, probably a dragon and it's used viciously.

To leave the marks often seen on websites are likely to be after the sub has received many hard strokes or been caned without a warm up to the skin.

I have seen some cold canings which did not leave such bad marks.

Which is my favourite ?
I had one for many years which was 33 inches long and 10mm diameter. It was straight with a nice handle.
I eventually broke it on josie's bottom during a punishment (probably because it had not been soaked in water recently)

I cut off the damaged portion and now carry it bent in my briefcase/toybox

Being a good sub, josie replaced it with an identical one. We both like that one and thankfully she has not earned a punishment for a long time.
I walk quietly but carry a big stick

Master Eagle clasps crags with wicked hands
Close to the sun in lonely lands
Spots Brats Bottoms from his rocky walls
Then like a thunderbolt his hand falls


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BTW a good UK site for Toys which ships worldwide is
http://www.itc-mag.com/shop/products.asp?si=21

my favourite cane is R732

Some members from Classics have bought leather paddles from this site and been very happy with them

I walk quietly but carry a big stick

Master Eagle clasps crags with wicked hands
Close to the sun in lonely lands
Spots Brats Bottoms from his rocky walls
Then like a thunderbolt his hand falls


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Another site I have bought canes and other toys from is linked below

The canes page shows a very good selection so may be educational

http://www.tawse.com/html/homeframe.html

then click
catalogue
Corporal punishment equipment
Cane incorpoated
I walk quietly but carry a big stick

Master Eagle clasps crags with wicked hands
Close to the sun in lonely lands
Spots Brats Bottoms from his rocky walls
Then like a thunderbolt his hand falls


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We do need to be careful about posting too many commercial links! One per post is probably okay, but the owner of the site asked that a post with several such links be removed, and that was done.
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Oh darn, I meant to copy that first so I would have it for referrence or when "shopping". :-(
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Steve thank you for your insight. But from what I hear or know I probabaly don't wiggle or squirm as much as Wolfie. At least I've never tried to crawl my way across the bed. LOL

But that is why I do not think Mr. B and I will ever use the cane because I won't hold a position and it may go astray. Unless you can hold a person and be accurate at the same time. I think I'd prefer to not take the chance. I know Mr. B would agree.

However that whippy little plastic thing you sent to him is likely to be reheated at some point by me and turned into something else, like a soap dish where it can not cause trouble.

However, thank you for the kind thought and sending it our way. I think. I will develop a love hate relationship with it I am sure. I wonder how many times I will have to reheat and shape it myself. When I hate it it's a soap dish, when I want the sting and to play it's the paddle again, until I hate it again and make it into a soap dish.
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I can see I need to play my little tapping game with you ann
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Master Eagle clasps crags with wicked hands
Close to the sun in lonely lands
Spots Brats Bottoms from his rocky walls
Then like a thunderbolt his hand falls


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We shall see Peter, we shall see. A tapping game with a cane I'm sure. Taps may be OK, note I said may be OK depending on your definition of a tap. and perhaps if I have a shoe at hand that I can throw at you if the taps become more than my definition of a Tap. Are you up to taking that chance?
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A shoe Ann? Would you like to borrow a plimsol when I have finished?

Shewolf, Floggerfalls has a post in this thread. Why not send him a PM and see if he can send you the links? Nobody would object to those in a private message...

Ross


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Thanks Ross. And thank you Peter.

I do believe Miss Josie is bringing some plimsolls with her Ann. Lets be sure to get to them before the guys do!
Certain stroppy Doms are more in need of a spanking than most brats I know!
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Plimsolls for me to throw at Peter? Josie what do you think? I wouldn't want to hurt him. But then a slipper (my version) is soft and fluffy so that would not be a problem.

Most importantly I do think we need to get them before the guys do. But if Josie is bring them, surely she WOULD NOT give them up to the guys.
The spice of life is having things MY OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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How much have you had to drink this morning Ann? Of course she would...the BRAT !!!
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quote:

I do believe Miss Josie is bringing some plimsolls with her Ann.




Aswell as OTHER things !!!

And Ann....Wolfie is incorrect............

I am NOT a BRAT
I am a TOTAL BRAT....


Josie the Wicked Evil Brat
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Peter[josie]



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Quote: "Josie the Wicked Evil Brat"

And you enjoy that roll way tooooo much Josie.

Perhaps if Josie does not behave and if she does betray her sista brats by giving out toys. The rest of the brats will have to tackle her and pile on top and we'd squish her like a pancake.

Are you afraid yet Josie.

I've already told Mr. B that you will probably be the only one that is saying to him; me me me, I don't know you yet Mr. B but please, tell me it's my turn, your lap is empty.
The spice of life is having things MY OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Me afraid??...Im NEVER afraid....lol

As for asking Mr. B if its my turn.......

will probably be more like this


IT IS MY TURN NOW!!!!
Quicker than a ray of light, she's flying.......

Peter[josie]



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You will be so much fun to meet Josie. I can't wait.

Ann
The spice of life is having things MY OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Josie, just remember that collectively we outweigh you by a hell of a lot. If we have you pinned and sat on, and someone starts tickling your feet, do you think you'll be able to breathe?

Something to think on, oh Queen WEB!
Certain stroppy Doms are more in need of a spanking than most brats I know!
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Leave my feet out of this..you BRAT!!!!

Even Samson had a weak spot!!

Wonder what yours is wolfie...maybe a phonecall to a certain Dom will answer my question, eh???...hehehehe
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Peter[josie]



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Peter sneaks in before dashing for a plane

I would leave her feet alone, have you ever smelt them when she has thick socks on under her smart boots ?

AND when you tickle her it becomes odious from elsewhere as well
I walk quietly but carry a big stick

Master Eagle clasps crags with wicked hands
Close to the sun in lonely lands
Spots Brats Bottoms from his rocky walls
Then like a thunderbolt his hand falls


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Just try it kiddo......lol
Quicker than a ray of light, she's flying.......

Peter[josie]



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Shewolf
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Ummmm, leave Steve out of this. This is between brats!
Certain stroppy Doms are more in need of a spanking than most brats I know!
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Josie! You are a shamelees one!smileys
Just consider me a "work in progress"

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